Mrs. Nesbitt’s ABC-Wednesday 

Round 20-J
My 134th entry – bijdrage
Started-Gestart: 28-08-2014 : 15-G



Hello and good morning, -afternoon, -evening, dear people who all participate is this wonderful photo-meme, which is a joy to me, week after week, after week. I’m always curious to what you come up with!

The challenging letter of this week is J and I’ve chosen for the name Joop
This post is an introduction to all of you… meet my husband, Johannes Wilhelmus Antonius, called in short: Joop
(This photo is taken on juni 4th 2016, on Joops 59th birthday)

We met on sunday may 15th 1977 and became friends, part of a larger group with no couples in it at that time. Due to an accident on 28th of oktober 1979 I broke my back and landed in hospital for almost a year. He and (just) one other friend (who died 29th of december 2015 at the age of 58 due to cancer after her husband died in 2000 at the age of 54 due to cancer also. She left behind 4 young children, the youngest one was just 5 months old at the time her husband died) stayed at my side.

8th of june 1980 we became officially a couple. On the 25th of december 1980 we got engaged and on the 28th of april 1983 we started living together. On the 9th of december 1983 we got married. On the 10th of januari 1985 we became parents of our daughter and she became a sister on 29th of november 1990 when her brother was born. On 13th of march 2013 we became grandparents.

We have survived lots of anguish which almost drove us apart but we wouldn’t give in so we fought for our marriage, ourselves and our “significant other” and we succeeded!  Still going strong together and with full intent to keep it that way!

Have a nice ABC-Wednesday-day / – week ~
♫ M e l o d y ♫ (ABC-W-team)
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